Thursday, January 10, 2019

Tu B'Shevat Loose Parts in Play


Ok, so you have all of your tree and Tu B'Shevat themed loose parts out and ready, but now what? Today I will take you through a few fun and simple ways our loose parts have come into play here this week! Some were entirely child-led while others were invitations or provocations I set up for the boys. Feel free to use these ideas in your own home or classroom and I always love seeing the way others are using loose parts in play and learning as well.

Both of the boys have taken a liking to our STEAM Cart drawers
and S especially loves the scrap wood drawer for building houses. He has created several intricate designs and adds in various peg dolls when he's done building. We've so far not created any permanent structures with the scrap wood and one of the ways I offered to support S in preserving his houses was to take photos of buildings he particularly likes and create a building journal together. I love the template provided in Pocket of Preschool's All About Building bundle but you can also make your own journal or blueprints book using graph paper, a photo album, a notebook or stapling together scrap paper. This is a great way to give value to your young builders' process, to incorporate writing and literacy, and to encourage planning, critical thinking and problem solving! It has also helped S to feel more secure in building his structures in shared play spaces (where Y can also get to them) and not to whisk away his materials to a solo location. Y is working on not knocking over structures without asking and S is working on sharing our many resources in common play areas.


Y has really enjoyed designing and tinkering with our tree loose parts collection. He loves getting a mirror tray to design on or even just transferring small parts in and out of the wooden bowls. He knows now how to carry a bowl with two hands to the table and also how to return them to the shelf when he's done. S even likes to use the snowflakes and flowers to add to the "tree" in the back of the shelf! While both of the boys have come up with great ways to use our loose parts on their own, I also set up a few simple table time activities for them over the week.


 Incorporating playdough or clay with loose parts can add a sensory component and all kinds of unique new design opportunities. What gravity may have previously prevented is now possible with a temporary medium to connect loose parts in novel ways. To set up a simple playdough invitation, you can use a sectioned tray along with some of your loose parts and some favorite clay or playdough tools. We used our current batch of homemade playdough, but you can use store bought or use clay or kinetic sand or whatever type of dough you like best. This activity is just right to stand on its own or you can incorporate a themed playdough mat for added inspiration. I love the free printable tree playdough mat from Picklebums.
It made a great backdrop for our playdough invitation and was just as much fun to use with loose parts and no dough! Y especially enjoyed it this way and returned to the table repeatedly throughout the morning to play.

The dead of winter may not be a time that many of us outside of the framework of Tu B'Shevat think about trees, but it is a time that many tree related products are on super sale at craft stores. That's where I found a couple of unfinished wooden tree decorations on major discount (not to mention the tree shaped cookie cutters you saw in our playdough invitation for 10 cents a piece). We have used one wooden tree for a collaborate process art project that I will post on shortly and the other, intended for hanging small pictures on looked like the perfect tree shaped weaving loom! I already have visions of it in our play garden holding bits of strings, ribbons and materials for bird nests in the Spring, but for now, it is a great indoor activity for weaving ribbons and working those tiny little fine motor muscles pinching miniature clothes pins.

 My favorite thing, perhaps, about using loose parts with my boys is that so often I am inspired by their play. It is a lot less of me setting up activities from my own ideas or ideas I see elsewhere and a lot more of me supporting activities that they create from their own ideas. Join us next time for a great family collaborative process art project for Tu b'Shevat and until then...

Happy Playing!



Wednesday, January 9, 2019

I Was a Perfect Parent...And Then I Had Kids

I typically use this space to share ideas and activities that incorporate play and learning into your home and/or classroom. I have a passion for play in childhood (and adulthood for that matter). I hope that at least on occasion, the ideas shared here are helpful. I also hope that (all photography "skills" put aside), the images shared here and on my social media accounts do not give forth a false impression or leave others feeling that life here is "picture perfect."

I want to interrupt my typical posts today to introduce you a bit more to me. Specifically a version of me several years ago. You see, back then I was the perfect parent. I knew just about everything there was to know about how others should parent their children. I offered a great deal of support and (sometimes unsolicited) advice to parents in need. Yes, I was that generous. Many times my advice was even supported by evidence from textbook theories and well documented long term studies. And if you were really lucky, I had a charming little anecdote from my classroom experience or even my own upbringing to compliment that. Ah, I was such a great mom. So confident and sure of herself. So focused and balanced. I had clarity and wisdom beyond my years (or at least beyond my experience). And then I had children of my own.

After my first cute and adorable child was born, even well into that experience, I still knew a lot about parenting. After all, now I was a mother; surely I could relate. I at least knew enough to still occasionally throw words like "always" or "never" at the beginning of swooping statements of wisdom. Then I had a second child. A very cute and adorable and different-from-my-first-child second child. And no, I'm not fooling myself this time into thinking now I have experienced all there is to experience. G-d has enough of a sense of humor to toss in some challenges in areas I previously knew everything about just to remind me that, like everyone else, I know nothing at all. And then I double dip. Triple dip even. I call every expert, parent and stranger I know for help. It really takes a village.

I have some talents. I have areas I am strong in. I love the early childhood years. But infancy is not my forte. In fact, even though I'd always loved children, months before S was due to arrive a couple of my friends gave birth and I became terrified to even hold their babies (let alone my own). I have no idea if I will be "good" at parenting older children and teenagers scare me. I am creative in setting up and implementing play and learning activities in my home and in classrooms. When I am outside of "the big picture" I can troubleshoot childhood challenges pretty efficiently and effectively. When I'm on the inside, I'm blind at best and overly emotional at worst. I worry. A lot. And when I run out of things to worry about in the middle of the night while everyone else is sleeping, sometimes I begin to worry about the fact that I worry.

I'm a terrible housekeeper. My husband does more than 50 percent of the cooking, housework and equally contributes on all aspects of child-rearing even if the tasks we do are different. He never ever raises his voice or loses his temper. His wife cannot say the same. (Once I heard her yelling at one of the kids about how yelling isn't nice. Yeah, really effective parenting there.) I binge watched the Marie Kondo show for three days on Netflix after which I successfully cleaned out and organized one of my three email account inboxes (photo at the top of this post for your viewing pleasure). Sometimes I put so much time and energy into setting up a play space that I am too tired afterward to join the boys in it and actually play. I'm not a morning person. Or an after 4PM person either. So yeah...that doesn't leave all that many hours of the day at which I'm at my peak, now, does it?

This house is full of toys and books and joy and giggles. And dirty laundry. And dishes. And tantrums over dinner and bedtime. And plants and children and waistlines that are growing. And glitter and dried up playdough and I don't even know what that is in the corner under the table, but I think I'll wait until the cleaning lady comes later this month and ask her to check for me and find out. I start over again daily--sometimes multiple times a day. This year was going to be different. I was going to be Mom of the Year. Then, three days into the new year, just after Rosh Hashanah, I shut Y's hand in the car trunk. He was, thank G-d, OK. I will try again next year...

Back when I was a perfect parent, friends also offered me free and often unsolicited feedback. One friend once told me lovingly I would someday make a wonderful Yiddishe Mama (Jewish mother).  She unexpectedly passed away from complications with diabetes. I really wish she could see me today and meet my boys because I want to know if she still thinks so. Another friend, although well intended, told me I would have a difficult time being a mother since I hate to be hugged and touched all day. It's true, I'm not a super touchy-feely person, but as it turns out, I can't get enough of my own kids' snuggles. That comes to the detriment of everyone else, though, because now I have even less energy for the snuggles of others.

In this age of modern technology and communication, the whole image of a village raising a child has changed. We have the propensity to be so connected in just seconds. And we have to propensity to feel isolated and lost in that. Has the village disappeared or has it changed? I'd like to think it has evolved and expanded. But just as quickly as photos of smiling happy families can give way to feelings of inadequacy and self doubt, I realize that this village will be what we make it. I belong to a number of social networking groups and most of the time, when I see a post a disagree with or feel threatened by, I scroll on. It's in my hands, after all. But today, when I saw one of those "just venting" followed by "swooping judgment of new moms"  anonymous posts, my snark caught up with me and I responded: "Ah, I used to know everything about parenting...and then I had kids of my own." I'm so blessed in this age of modern technology and communication that Facebook reminds me daily that on this day, 7 years ago, I knew so much about parenting I made a post just like this and it wasn't even anonymous. I may not have had kids yet, but boy did I have enough chutzpah to spare.

So now, I need to put my snark and my chutzpah aside. Parenthood has been one of the most humbling experiences I could ask for. It magnifies my strengths and weaknesses alike. And if it's not enough to see them in the mirror, there are two, slightly shorter versions of it traipsing around the house every day. I'm grateful for those who think I am talented and "an amazing mom" and for a few minutes, sometimes that goes to my head until the next reality check toddles into the room and reminds me otherwise. I share a lot of photos of my kids and what we're doing here. Those take about a second to snap. And in just the same amount of time, I can snap. But I don't share photos of that, because, let's be real, my Mommy-losing-her-$@#* face just isn't as adorable on film. And I don't have a selfie stick. And without one, I always have a double chin. With a few hairs. Because some ladies get that lovely pregnant glow when they become mothers for the first time and others just get the Family Beard. So as we part today, here's to you parents. To the ones I gave advice to and to the ones I seek advice from. You all rock. You're all doing A-OK! You've got this! And if you happen to know of a great and affordable option for permanent hair removal, you know where to find me...snapping a photo of a beautifully executed loose parts play provocation and cropping the dirty laundry pile out of it.  We'll be back with more posts that are actually about play and until then...

Happy Parenting!

Tuesday, January 8, 2019

Tu B'Shevat Tissue Paper Tree Art

If you think that you shall never see a poem as lovely as a tree, you should see the beautiful results of this surprisingly simple Tu b'Shevat art activity! I saw the idea first on the Pinterested Parent. I tried it out myself before introducing it to the boys and decided it would make a perfect project for Rosh Chodesh Shevat, welcoming the new Jewish month of Shevat. The finished work truly looks like it took hours of labor and love, but really this project is easy to prepare and complete in just minutes--a huge plus if your artists (young or old) have a shorter attention span.

You will need:

  • thick white paper-I used watercolor paper as it is more conducive to soaking up both water and the color, but card stock worked well, too
  • color bleed tissue paper -- regular tissue paper will not necessarily work here, so you do need to get specifically the type that is labeled as color bleeding tissue. It is available in most craft supply stores and, of course, on Amazon. 
  • black permanent marker
  • spray bottle with water

Before you begin you (or your artists) will want to draw a black tree trunk with branches in the center of your page (or wherever you wish to place it--you could even draw multiple trees). I cut a few strips of tissue paper down to small rectangles. Little artists can help with this as well. You'll want to make sure everyone's hands are dry because any amount of moisture will cause the colors to bleed! 

I like to wet the paper beforehand and had the boys do the same. Y was especially excited to discover he can work a spray bottle now and wash his own glasses. This should come in handy...


Next, lay your tissue paper squares down as you like them. They can be scrunched, flat, layered... When everyone felt they had their tissue paper squares in the position they wanted, we sprayed more water over top. S is rather an overzealous sprayer with a spray bottle--a quality that often washes his project colors away, but comes in rather handy with this one. The more water, the more the colors will spread and mix. It's pretty impossible to go wrong here, and I like that in an art project!


Next, it's time to get everyone away from the wet and colorful artwork and let the situation dry for a bit. Once everything is dry, you can easily remove the tissue paper squares and dispose of them (although they are still so pretty, even with the colors mixed now that I kind of wanted to save them and use it for collage...)

Your artwork will be revealed on the paper and is ready to send on display or as a greeting in the mail or to gift to a friend or family member. 


I think they all came out so great, don't you? Color bleed tissue paper art is a great medium for working with artists of all ages. One friend of mine contacted me for directions to do this with a group of children and senior citizens she runs--what a great idea! You could tailor the colors of your trees to be seasonally specific or use the same concept to draw and add color to another subject of art. We will be back with a really fun collaborative process art project for Tu b'Shevat in the days to come. Until then...

Happy Playing!

Sunday, January 6, 2019

Fostering a Sense of Sustainability in our Children: A Tribute to Tu b'Shevat

I can remember a babysitting job I took in my early college days for a family living next door to my college campus. They were a lovely young family in a small suburban home with a comparatively huge edible garden in their yard. They had a preschool aged son and twin one year old boys at the time. They ate a vegan diet, cloth diapered, primarily cycled for transportation and I truly felt at ease in their home. Until the first massive spill occurred. I asked the preschool aged child where the paper towels were. He did not even know what paper  towels were. After some time describing the mysterious product of a towel you use only once and then throw away, he directed me to a drawer of rags for cleaning. Who knew?

Fast forward a few more years, and you could find a slightly older quite idealistic version of me perusing the aisles of locally owned co-ops, thrift stores and farmer's markets on my very limited budget and toting my most recent library checkout, Sleeping Naked is Green: How an Eco-Cynic Unplugged Her Fridge, Sold Her Car and Found Love in 366 Days by Vanessa Farquharson in a reusable canvas bag. I was going to take the plunge. I was going to live a sustainable lifestyle on a barely sustainable college student budget. I was going to compost in a coffee can. I was going to go paperless. I was going to go green. I was going to have the sinus infection of a lifetime and only some makeshift snot rags from an old bed sheet on hand. And a washer and dryer that required quarters to operate. In another building. Around the block. Not my most sustainable sustainability plan ever...
You know you might be a bit crunchy when you ask
for a compost pail for Mother's Day...

I caved. I bought a box of tissues. Not even recycled, unbleached tissues. I bought Puffs Plus with Lotion. A nose in need deserves Puffs indeed. And I accepted that my version of living a sustainable life needed, like all other areas of my life, to be balanced. This meant that at different points in my life, I focused on different ways of living with less waste. Sometimes that meant shopping secondhand or using cloth napkins or bringing my own bags to the supermarket. Sometimes that meant purging nearly all my worldly possessions to thrift stores, emergency service agencies and individuals in need and moving cross country with only 15 boxes, 3 carry-ons and bicycle I had used as my sole method of transportation for the last 9 years. But not all of this was because I love the trees. Much of it was because I was a college student on a fixed budget living on her own 3000 miles away from any family who needed to get around and didn't drive. I also didn't always live with "less." My affinity toward thrift store shopping and many other creative interests led me to acquire quite a lot and the act of purging nearly all of it was actually quite challenging and cathartic at the same time.

Life stages shift and focuses shift along with them. I got married and moved again and early on in our marriage when I was newly pregnant with S and super tired, I can remember lying in bed wistfully daydreaming of my former thrift store shopping days and sandals with socks and bicycle treks to farmers' markets with canvas totes in tow. I was so nostalgic for these days and so hormonal that my husband, not really knowing what else to do, took me to a local secondhand shop and we bought about 5 mismatched cloth napkins. He must have thought I was absolutely insane, but these napkins brought me so much joy! They were a piece of me I had left behind, seemingly inconsequential, but a piece of me, nonetheless. And I knew at that point, though not necessarily in what context, that fostering a sense of sustainability in our own growing family was something I valued.
The boys carry snacks to school or outings in reusable canvas pouches they decorated or simple sewn drawstring bags I made from scraps of a favorite fabric.

We buy most of our cloth napkins secondhand. When
they get too stained and worn out, I don't feel badly finally
sending them on their way; they've lived a full life! Once
in a great while, I'll splurge on a unique one from a gift
shop as a souvenir from a family trip. We usually each use one
a day and then it gets tossed in a wash. A far cry from the endless
number of paper napkins we used to go through here...

At that time, I had images of cloth diapering among other ideals that didn't play out. As I had already discovered, living a sustainable lifestyle also means living in balance with what is practical for your family at the time. Over the last five years, we've ditched paper napkins in favor of cloth ones. We have paper towels (and we swing for the more expensive ones because you can use less at a time). We also have an assortment of cloth towels and rags. I travel with disposable wipes and diapers but also with an old makeup bag filled with some handmade cloths and a gentle soap spray I made from diluted castile soap for wiping everything from dirty hands to peanut butter covered faces on the go. S brings his snack to school in reusable bags, carries a hand knit napkin in his lunch and reusable containers and flatware for the most part. With two kids, we do dishes a load of laundry daily anyway. But we were spending exorbitant amounts on paper and plastic products before introducing the reusable options. I wear socks with my sandals again because how else will people ever see my really cool socks? We joined a CSA and in the warmer months we get a box of locally grown produce biweekly. In the winter, we realized we weren't using it as much and reduced our subscription to every three weeks. We have a sedan and a minivan. I have a tiny compost pail under the sink for some of our waste but our trash can is about 4 times that size and we empty it daily. We don't have curbside recycling here, but we do have some bins at a local grocery store and, um, two bags full of items I have yet to take there. Nonetheless, the kids love to scrounge through it for treasures and also help to contribute to it.

I remember being quite disheartened to find out years ago when my husband was working at a reputable liberal arts college that both the recycling and garbage bins in his office were emptied each morning into the same plastic trash bag by campus staff. I don't fool myself into believing that the small things we do in our home or daily lives make such a huge and enormous difference in the grand disposable scheme of things. But I do value modeling and imparting a mentality of balanced and practical sustainability for my children.

My students were fascinated by this "magic" tree
made from recycled newspaper!


I also remember early in my teaching career how frustrated I felt when the students would mistreat materials and supplies. Caps left off markers were perhaps one of my greatest pet peeves. I even did the classic old school teacher move of "revoking their marker privileges" until they could demonstrate care and responsibility for their materials and earn the privilege of coloring with markers back! Now I cringe at this display of arrogance. Fast forward to my own children, and I still kind of initially balk when one of them breaks a toy or damages something and S will respond with "let's get another one at the store." I cringe a little when I scrape large quantities of the food they were previously starving for into the trash can. I recoil a little when the faucet is left running in the bathroom sink. Don't these kids have any reverence for our planet and our shared responsibility in caring for it? Don't they have any idea that toys cost money? Or that the mini cucumber I'm throwing away was truly a miracle that emerged from one tiny seed and a comparatively enormous amount of labor, toil and love? And the answer to those questions is no. They don't know that. They are 21 months and 4 years old and up until now, everything has just shown up here. Their toys, their dinner, their markers and even the bathroom sink. They don't see my husband in his office each day and what he does to earn the money that pays the bills. They just see him leave in the morning and come home at night. They don't see the farmers in the fields or the truck drivers delivering produce to the stores or the night shift workers stocking the shelves. We just go to Walmart and pick what we want to buy and pay for it. They don't see the water cycle and the affect it has on everything from the fish in the sea to the cucumber on their dinner plate. They just see that when the faucet is turned on, the water comes out and if you add enough soap, it makes a lot of bubbles. And bubbles are fun.

I keep a stock of lower quality washcloths (the kind you buy in a huge pack at Walmart) for wiping spills, dirty hands, dirty faces, messy art projects, household cleaning, wiping tabletops and counter tops and whatever other needs may arise. A large stack is ready in our kitchen above the laundry machines and a smaller stack is kept in a drawer where the boys can access them as needed to clean up their own spills and messes. S is able to reach to put them in the laundry area when he's done. Once they get particularly worn or stained, they get downgraded to rag status or cut and re-purposed for smaller rags/wipes. 


So years ago, after a marker cap rampage right around the time of Tu b'Shevat, I decided to use the holiday as a backdrop for teaching about sustainability and being resourceful rather than wasteful. I bought a recycling bin for my classroom and children came to school with dumbfounded parents who wanted to know why they were dumpster diving for contributions. We would have recycled art days here and there throughout the year when it was time to empty the recycling. (I can imagine those parents were equally dumbfounded when the plastic apple container from Costco came back home covered in tape, google eyes and pipe cleaners.) And I involve my own children in recycling, reusing, growing some of our own food and picking out cloth napkins at the thrift store. They can reach a tissue for their nose and they can reach a rag from the drawer. We shop for most of our groceries at Walmart, but we also take the boys to the thrift store when we go or the farmer's market, food co-op and garden center in season.

As we play with our collection of wooden loose parts, we talk about the gifts we get from trees--and also that these gifts are given to the detriment and demise of that tree. It's not that I want my children (or my students) to feel guilty using a sheet of paper or building with wooden blocks. It's that I want them to experience the true joy of gratitude in it and the sense of wonder that a pencil, a tissue, a piece of paper and a cardboard tube all came from a tree. And so did the door on our pantry and the popsicle stick on our dessert and the apple in our lunchbox, not to mention the great place for climbing, the special spot for sitting in the shade and the fresh sweet air we breathe on our Shabbos afternoon walk.
I sew and knit rags and towels in a variety of sizes for a variety of uses. Flannel and terrycloth backed "wipes" are perfect for traveling in my purse and are a great way to re-purpose bits of worn out towels, pajamas, baby blankets and such that are sentimental or not entirely ready to be tossed out altogether. S brings a knit napkin in his lunch box each day and even though I know for a fact he is so eco-friendly he only uses his shirt sleeve, I like to think that this little bit of handmade Mommy love reminds him of home while he eats his lunch. It's also nice to have small, quick projects for working on the go.


And so this is not a post preaching that you should don a pair of printed socks and sandals (but you can if you want to, I won't judge). I won't tell anyone to adopt any of the habits I have or to ditch any others that you may have. I really do think it is about balance and about what works for your family at the time (knowing that these things change through the seasons and years). If some of these do resonate, go for it! If none of them do, keep scrolling! I am not going to unplug my fridge. I'm not going to sell our cars. I am not even going to ditch the tissues ever again because, um, going green just can't be that green in my world. And whether the recycled items I toss in the bins (if I ever actually do make it there) go into a trash bag or to the recycling center, I don't know. But I do know that a connection is made for my children when they help to sort them or even when they pull a cardboard tube from the stash to turn into a telescope. I know that bit by bit, they learn through my own modeling and their participating in this endeavor that the joy they have in blowing through a paper towel tube trumpet is from the same place as the joy they have when climbing the low, gnarly branches of the 100 year old mulberry tree at our botanical garden center. They will connect, too, the joy they feel in biting into a juicy strawberry with the joy they feel at seeing that first red berry emerge on their own strawberry plant in our yard.


It's the same joy I felt with those thrifted mismatched cloth napkins five years ago. The joy of living in a way that exudes the gratitude I feel for this immense level of interconnection. That everything from the bracha (blessing) I make on a glass of water to the way I wipe a spill that subsequently happens is all an opportunity to tap into that joy and feel as rooted as a 100 year old mulberry tree. So if you happen to see a minivan drive by with a bin of reusable grocery totes and spilled recyclables "on their way to the recycling bins" rolling around in the back, it might be me. If it also happens to be parked across no fewer than 3 spots about 7 miles away from any other cars in the lot and there's someone rather shadily walking toward the grocery store pushing a cart with two cuties and donning a pair of bumblebee knee socks and some sandals in January, it's definitely me.

Happy Playing!  

Friday, January 4, 2019

Birds of a Feather Flock Together, No Matter the Weather!

I must admit that I miss my garden. For all the work and toil and struggle, I find myself drooling a bit over seed catalogs and dreaming of spring even in the midst of a very mild (so far) winter. So when I posted this sentiment on a gardening group, I got a lot of suggestions to take up bird watching this season. We [I] really took our time winterizing our garden, so I like to think I did the birds a bit of a favor in leaving them some plants and seeds to enjoy as the seasons shifted here. After we did revamp the play garden, we included a new bird feeder, some bird seed treats, and made sure to clean out and refill our bird bath (a shallow pie tin layered with colorful stones and mosaic tiles and filled with water). Our front garden became a hub for feathered friends (who are now eating us out of house and home) and our dining room windows gave us front row seats to the extravaganza!

I know, I know, I said no toys at the table. But technically a bird-watching basket is not a toy, right? I decided to bend my own rules and stock a basket with some tools and inspiration for bird-watching through our dining room windows. The boys (and adults) do know that we need to finish eating and wipe our hands before bird-watching, but having our basket stocked and ready makes it the perfect table top accessory this time of year--and also easy to transport outside when we want to take the show on the road.

I included a set of binoculars, a couple of prism viewers, some local bird photo cards, a few interesting feathers we found and collected, a magnifying glass and a selection of bird books and guides. Many of these books were purchased secondhand at thrift stores or the library at our botanical garden center. You could also include a small sketch book and some colored pencils if you wish.

Meanwhile, in the sensory table... I poured a layer of birdseed, added in some scoops, cups, funnels, nests and plastic birds The boys have had so much fun scooping, pouring, sifting and playing! And I no longer have to bend down under that table to refill the birdfeeder [every other day!] as an added bonus...

Our visiting feathered friends remind me that life exists beyond spring and summer. Winter is a season, too! And not just a season for waiting. It is a season fro watching. For feasting and flying and gathering with family and friends. Bird-watching is a wonderful family activity to take up any time of year and all year long. You can also enliven your indoor world by including fresh cut flowers, houseplants and/or forcing bulbs on your kitchen or dining room table. Birds of a feather flock together, no matter the weather!
Happy Playing!

Thursday, January 3, 2019

Learning About Tu B'Shevat through Loose Parts

When I realized that Tu B'Shevat, the Jewish new year of the trees is just a few weeks away, falling on January 20-21 this year, I kind of panicked. I had nothing or prepared at home. S will surely gain a great understanding and experience of this special day in school, but we are away for a week coming up to visit my family up north and I wanted something at home to supplement and make the day meaningful to the boys. I love when Tu B'Shevat falls in the dead of winter here. It really is a holiday centralized in Israel to mark the beginning of the season shift there. Here (although it's been unseasonably warm), the trees and plants are mostly dormant. Still, every season deserves its honor and what better way to view each one than through the cycle of a tree? And what better way to experience this than through child-led, hands on exploration of loose parts?

While doing a major playroom shift and setup is never a small feat (especially with little ones "helping,") this was kind of my version of an easy way out this year. Rather than focusing on directed activities and lessons at home (although we may do a few art activities and directed play and STEAM invitations), I wanted to set out materials the boys could explore at their whim that had to do with trees. So I set about gathering materials from around the house, printing and laminating labels and made a brief stop to the local craft supply store. Little money saving pro-tip: if you're looking for tree-related craft supplies and materials, right after Christmas is a great time to take advantage of super sales! And then, I revamped our STEAM Cart and top play shelf to incorporate a variety of loose parts and materials having to do with wood, woodworking, building, parts of trees/plants and seasons.

I envisioned completing this project in a peaceful and empty living room. What actually transpired was a very eager to help Y accompanying me on the endeavor. He had a lot of ideas, and you know what? They weren't half bad! (The bowl of flowers and apples are his addition--and we are celebrating the emerging growth of fruit trees and Spring in Israel, right?) He is also responsible for the loose parts shelf altogether as I only envisioned a small muffin tin and tinker tray in one of our STEAM drawers. He wanted to work with a larger pallet, and this reminded me keenly of the importance of seeing the space we intend for our children through their eyes and not only our own. So I upgraded from the muffin tin to a secondhand set of wooden salad bowls and we gathered and sorted materials. Some are natural and others man-made. 
We included:
  • dried cotton flowers
  • seed pods
  • pine cones
  • acorns
  • cinnamon sticks
  • acrylic acorns, leaves and large gems/beads
  • wooden letter tiles (a fun way to sneak in some early literacy and writing)
  • snowflake decorations (deconstructed Dollar Tree ornaments)
  • silk leaves 
  • silk flowers
  • artificial apples
You can use solely items collected from nature or add in relevant man-made loose parts as well. I like the combination of the two and I think it can also spark some meaningful conversation about nature versus man-made materials. The finishing touch was to set out some of our favorite books about Tu B'Shevat and trees and a couple of decorative "trees" in the background.

Meanwhile in our STEAM Cart, I wanted to focus on building using tree-made materials--i.e. WOOD! S has long had a fascination with woodworking and Y is eagerly catching on and catching up. Our woodworking area in our play garden has been temporarily cleaned out and shut down for the winter weather. Much of the wood left outdoors needed to be recycled and the tools brought inside after a very wet summer. We definitely plan to open up shop again outdoors (perhaps with a more waterproof setup) but in the meantime, we have incorporated opportunities to plan, build and design indoors. Our STEAM cart labels were created using the editable version and read-made version of Pocket of Preschool's FREE STEM labels. The drawers are stocked with materials to encourage loose parts play, design, planning, recording, small world play, building and even woodworking (with adult support and supervision). Here's a virtual peek inside:

  • Our top drawer (not shown) is still stocked with playdough and tools. Currently that includes homemade peppermint playdough and some winter and tree shaped cookie cutters along with rolling pins, trays and plastic knives. I also store small containers of kinetic sand here and silly putty--this is a quick go-to when we need a table time activity. Playdough can also be used in conjunction with loose parts to build and create tree-themed art. Stay tuned for a post on that in the future...
  • Our write and record drawer still has colored pencils and pencils, graph paper and blueprint templates ready for use.
  • Woodworking tools including sanding blocks/sand paper, safety goggles, hammers, nails, rulers and/or a tape measure
  • Wooden craft sticks in a variety of sizes
  • Wooden loose parts including peg clothes pins, mini Jenga blocks, unpainted wooden peg dolls, some painted wooden peg dolls and a set of seasons Russian nesting dolls I painted last year, and other unique small wood parts. You can include spools, clothespins, wooden cups, blocks, small toys and other shapes--whatever you have on hand.
  • Wood Scraps purchased in bulk from craft supply stores are great for building temporary designs, practicing sanding, hammering and nailing and even planning and producing simple projects. Adult support and supervision is necessary when using tools and nails with young children.
  • Large tree planks, wooden craft planks with the bark still on are available for building--these larger pieces are great for supports and foundations
  • Assorted Small Tree Blocks collected from craft supply stores including tree circles, shapes and blocks with the bark still on, drift wood, etc. for building/designing
  • Wood blocks in assorted shapes and sizes. You can find block sets in secondhand stores quite frequently and we also have some Jenga blocks thrown into the mix. 
  • Cardboard tubes and/or other recycled materials are a great way to incorporate the idea of preserving and protecting natural resources into learning about the importance of trees. They also make fabulous tree trunks and building materials!
The boys have just begun to explore these materials and I am excited and eager for the play and learning that will come.


Even if you don't celebrate Tu B'Shevat, these ideas can be incorporated into a unit on trees, gardening, plants or the four seasons. I love that while our trees and garden lie dormant, this holiday helps me connect to the life that is sleeping just beneath the soil. A friend who is not Jewish shared with me that after learning through me about the holiday of Tu B'Shevat several years ago, she now takes a little hike in the woods each year on that day to visit the trees! What a beautiful and inspiring concept. So while we look longingly out of the window this time of year where I live, we can also enjoy a bit of nature inside. We'll be back with some more Tu B'Shevat inspired activities in the days to come. Until then...

Happy Playing!







Wednesday, January 2, 2019

Loose Parts, STEAM, and the Missing Letter

If you've been around these blog parts for a while, you're already well versed in my love of loose parts and small world play. I truly have a passion for the use of loose parts in the home and classroom from infancy all the way up through adulthood. (Yes, I play, too!) So often when we talk about loose parts, we talk about their use in STEM/STEAM activities as children develop science, technology, engineering, art and math skills through open ended exploration of materials both nature and man-made. Everybody loves a great acronym, but I think a letter was left out of the mix when it comes to loose parts play and STEAM: L! Literacy and Language Development are integral components of early childhood development and loose parts play is a fabulous way to foster these skills.

Read all about it here!
I have written on the topic of Loose Parts Play and Literacy before and you can read all about it (and so much more!) at Fantastic Fun and Learning. Early literacy through intentionally set up play spaces and activities is a topic near and dear to my heart. Today, however, I am focusing more on the way that children naturally develop language and early literacy skills (from as young as infancy) through meaningful play opportunities with loose parts.

Have you ever observed young children at play and noticed the way that they will hold a running monologue of what they are doing and what is happening? As they build, tinker, create and later, engage in symbolic play opportunities, children use language to describe their play and thought processes. Earlier on, this typically manifests in the third person narrative and later on, often develops into talking through characters and their experiences. What young children may not realize is that these are the beginnings of storytelling (and down the line, writing) skills! Our little players are indeed young authors! Encouraging them in this process can truly ignite a lifelong love of language, literacy and learning overall and an environment rich in loose parts and open ended play materials can support this.


Ok, but now what? If you're newer to the loose parts scene, beginning can always feel overwhelming and I want to quell that anxiety as much as possible. You don't need to go out and buy a lot or dig through your home and set out a whole lot of materials. The "loose" in loose parts is not synonymous with "little" or "lots and lots." In fact, particularly for younger ones, just a few different materials at a time can be enough to explore and tinker and ignite the imagination. Too many materials can be overstimulating and overwhelming. Many times we also mistakenly assume that loose parts refers to small objects that the very young cannot safely explore and this, too, is a misconception. Large, movable objects like recycled cardboard tubes, fabrics and silks, boxes and blocks can all make fabulous loose parts for very young players. 

Elements of color, sound, texture, position (whether it is high up like these scarves or within reach like these sensory balls and blocks) all spark curiosity and natural exploration. Even pre-verbal infants and young toddlers are developing early language skills as they explore, tinker and create with these objects. The addition of our own conversation in support of their play helps to enrich the experience with language connection.


Pace and Process: Our agenda with truly open ended loose parts play is different from that of an intentionally set up play invitation. Certainly, both of these scenarios have value. However, in open ended exploration, the player is the maker and creator. The objects he chooses may not "go together" or make sense to us, but this is his experience. The order of operations may also confound our adult minds, but it is assisting in developing the child's mind and critical thought processes.




For instance, just last night S was sifting through our STEAM Cart for some loose parts to tinker with. He came over to the art center with about 4 or 5 large wooden craft sticks and asked if he could use some tape on them. Generally speaking the definition of loose parts play excludes tape/glue and leaves opportunity for continued use, but I totally support the addition of these items when it's asked for. I asked S what he was making and he said he wasn't sure yet. I was curious to observe his process. He taped the wooden sticks together, binding them in four locations with masking tape. From there, he went back to the drawers and chose a paper straw. "Can I tape one of these on?" he asked. "Sure!" I answered, eager to see what was next. He taped the straw on, noticing that the sticks were made from wood and asking what the straw was made from. I told him it was made from very thick paper. From there, he held the contraption sideways against his lips to blow from the straw and announced he'd made a flute! He blew and hummed through the hole of his flute and I was simply astounded at the process. He didn't go into the process with a plan to make a flute, rather, he chose materials, put them together and it turned out in the end to be a flute. As adults, we often think in our adult mindset that a plan comes first, then a process, then a result. With children, this is not necessarily so. And for S, this play opportunity to use the materials he chose in the way he wanted and the order of operations he followed all supported his ability to problem solve and create his own story and process.

Even the process of building and woodworking becomes an opportunity for building language and sequencing as S navigates the process of taking loose materials and turning them into something else.

 Here, he decided to make a bed that was later used for Goldilocks so she would not need to
sleep in the beds of the Three Bears.


Look Who's Talking: When selecting loose parts, I tend to love natural options. Even taking children out into nature to gather and collect pine cones, seed pods, leaves, sticks, rocks and wood pieces can ignite storytelling opportunities. Children create their own props for stories and dictate their processes as they navigate the way these work together. Perhaps something is not functioning in its intended manner, and the child must reconstruct in a new way. Language supports them and dictates the process. It helps them to problem solve and to navigate elements of their stories. We can further support the process by acknowledging that they are storytellers and giving value to this experience. We can also try as much as possible to refrain from too much of our own dialogue and input and to make room for theirs. It is so tempting as adults to ask "what are you making?" or "what is next?" and while our intentions are the very best, we can inadvertently give forth the idea that all processes of play are product oriented and that time is limited.

Time is of the Essence: Maria Montessori wrote about a concept called false fatigue in play, during which a child will seem disengaged with their activity and we [falsely] assume this means they are done and need a new activity. Rather, this is a period of transition before which play reaches a new level--a pause, so to speak. I think that one of the greatest detriments to the pace of the current early childhood classroom is the loss of open ended time for activities, play included. We have so many opportunities and activities for children to explore that everything is on a clock; our clock. First there's table time and then it's time for Circle and look, now it's snack time and we have to go outside. We are also set to this pace as adults and we often assume that it is what our children need. We are certain that their young attention spans cannot stay with one space or activity for longer than a few minutes. And while I do agree that "sitting still" is not a developmentally appropriate expectation, staying with an activity that truly engages a child is an opportunity that is often lost in our culture.

Resisting the Urge to Rescue: More recently having been on Winter Break from school, S had the opportunity to experience boredom. When I say "boredom," I mean, unfilled space and time. Parts of our day that were not automatically filled with an activity for him, but rather a time he had an opportunity to choose his own. It was a struggle! He often needed to sit for a few minutes before deciding what to do. (These moments usually came after one activity had ended and before another began.) Sometimes I would give a suggestion and other times, I did not. I would assure him gently that with a space full of things to use and a mind full of ideas on how to use them, I knew he would come up with something great. And that it was OK to sit a minute with the thoughts about it. I resisted the urge to "solve his problem," because truly boredom is not a problem; it's an opportunity. We think of boredom as a feeling that is very uncomfortable and it can be, but it can also be OK to sit back and think and we need to assure our children that this is so. S would indeed sit on the couch for a few minutes and then move forward.
Another challenge that frequently arises in our home is one in which S (or Y) has an idea of something he wants to use in his play and it is either put away somewhere else or not in our current rotation. We are short on space here and it used to always be that I felt compelled then to go get what the boys were asking for and rescue them from the discomfort of not having it right away, or, heaven forbid, having to solve the problem another way. More recently, I decided to say instead that I could not get it right away and ask what else could be used. Naturally, nearly seamlessly, the boys both gravitated toward what was available in our STEAM Cart, art shelves or play area and use the materials in novel ways to support their play schemas. S was able to use straws and metal hex nuts to make birthday candles on a cake Y made from playdough to celebrate a fictional character's birthday party. We did not need to immediately go upstairs and get the plastic cupcake dishes out and the set of birthday candles we use for sensory play.

I credit a lot of my boys' problem solving skills to the opportunities they've had to play with open ended loose parts. They create small worlds and intricate stories. They solve problems for and through their characters and thereby solve problems for themselves. And while much of the experience does touch upon those other letters in STEM/STEAM, I also know that they are gaining so much in the area of language and literacy development. Sometimes I might offer to take down dictation of their small world scenes and stories or the process by which they built or created something. In this way, they come to connect the rich value of language with that of written word. Sometimes I do this through photos and we hang them at child level for them to see their play and creation experiences. I don't need to tell them that I am giving them the gift of becoming literate (they can thank me later). The greatest gift we can give our children at this stage and well beyond it is the opportunity for unrestricted, self-led exploration.
Happy Playing!